Tantric Massage for Men
Lingam massage is a tantric massage for men. This erotic massage for men is a very important part of tantra both for men and for couples. It is a ritual that includes sensual massage of the male genital area, the perineum and the anus. The aim of Lingam massage is not to reach orgasm or to cure premature ejaculation, but to achieve sexual healing for men, vital for true fulfilment and personal evolution. When done well, this sensitive massage implies deep knowledge of the ancient techniques that have endured and evolved within the Saivite Tantra tradition.
The benefits of Lingam Massage
Lingam massage has numerous sexual benefits for men; it helps control premature ejaculation, impotence, ejaculation, genital insensitivity, hypersensitivity, fears, insecurities…
Controlling ejaculation is fundamental for the practice of tantra for men as well as for personal evolution. The first step is to distinguish between orgasm and ejaculation. Orgasm is an energetic phenomenon, whereas ejaculation is chemical. Learn how to avoid ejaculation, so as not to constantly emptying yourself of energy, managing the orgasmic energy and using it for your sadhana (tantric practice). Transforming orgasmic energy is an important step in sexual yoga for men. Beware of obsessing about not ejaculating as this can give rise to physical problems, such as prostatitis or prostate cancer, and mental disorders. In addition, obsession with non-ejaculation or celibacy blocks energy, something that is not part of tantra. The secret is somewhere in the middle.
Tantric massage for men is not just about massaging the penis; physically it focuses on the penis, the testicles, the perineum, the pubococcygeus muscle, the pelvic floor, the anus and the coccyx. Later you will learn how to do a tantric massage for a man, or Lingam massage. The male masseur can give a man-to-man massage (some call it gay massage, although this is just a label), or you can chose a female erotic masseuse London.
Orgasm or male multiorgasmia are not the final goals of Tantra, rather they are the beginning. Once you succeed in awakening Kundalini and channelling the sexual energy generated in Muladhara, the root chakra that heals emotional and mental illnesses, you can attain samadhi, or enlightenment. The same goes for tantric massage for women, erotic massage for women or yoni massage Barcelona.
If you are a woman and you would like to learn how to give a Lingam massage for men, receive a Yoni massage for women or learn tantra for women, please contact me using the online form to recieve information about tantra workshops in London.
Remember that the goal of tantra is to take you down a path of sensations, sexual healing and self-knowledge, not just orgasm or ejaculation.
How do you give a man a tantric massage?
If you want to know how to do a Lingam massage, here are some tips for tantric massage for men. An erotic or a tantric massage could be a good gift for a man.
Preparation. Prepare the space so that it is quiet, with soft lighting and a pleasant temperature.
Stimulation. Stimulate as many senses as possible. Though touch, with caresses, massage and kisses. Through sight, by dressing or undressing in a sensual way. Through smell, by using incense, perfume, candles, etc. Through sound, with music, whispers and stimulating words. You can also add food as a complement to the cocktail of pleasures.
Oil. Use natural oil such as almond, coconut, argan or whichever one you prefer. Lubricate the penis, scrotum, perineum and anus well, without flooding the area.
Stretching. The penis has no muscles; it is full of chambers that fill with blood and cause erections. However, the penis is attached to the pelvic muscles, so it is very important to stretch it in order to prevent these muscles from atrophying, the area getting congested or the penis shrinking.
Testicles. Massaging the testicles stimulates the secretion of hormones that are very important for male health, as well as decongesting and stopping lumps forming.
Perineum. The muscles around the perianal area are usually tense, so relaxing this area helps the flow of energy and blood to the genital area.
Anus. Massaging the anus is used for sexual stimulation and to prepare the area for a prostate massage, the male G-spot.
Love. Be creative during the lingam massage, feel free to play and try out new things, it does not matter what technique you use, as long as you do it with love, passion and total devotion. Give yourself fully to the massage and to the feelings that it awakens in both of you. Sensual tantric massage is a form of meditation. If you want some more advice about giving erotic massages, please read the section about erotic massage for couples.